Thanks to Ms. Rhonda Britten....
The discussion explaining Spiritual and Sexual fear was borrowed from Ms.Britten explanation of "What Is Fear" in Her book "Fearless Living"....
Fearless Living helped Me to identify and overcome many issues that defines My Sensuous Soul Journey....
When we become aware of how Spiritual and Sexual fear is ruining our lives and what our spiritual and sexual fears are, we have the power to break free of our conditioning and make choices about how we behave....
To discover in oneself a great spiritual and sexual understanding can certainly bring exhilaration but it can also bring on fear of spiritual and sexual dangers and responsibilities.
Deep down we want to own our spiritual power and claim our sexual strength. In order to do that
we must embrace the fullness of who we are and that includes our spiritual and sexual limitations.
Spiritual and sexual fear keeps us from feeling alive when there is danger of not being accepted,
approved of or understood. Therefore, we deny our essential spiritual and sexual nature....
That is why a perceived spiritual or sexual crises is sometimes necessary to shake up your world
and give you the courage you need to show your spiritual or sexual fear who’s boss.
You may not ever be able to pinpoint what’s going on, but you know something isn’t quite working....
Your soul…Your Sensuous Soul…Yearns for more....
While we wait for circumstances or people to change that outside of our control, we end up feeling sorry for ourselves, spiritually resentful and sexually helpless.
In order to make any permanent changes you have to be willing to see things differently….
You have to be willing to explore new spiritual paths and sexually creative ideas.
When we are willing to shift, remove or change the spiritual and sexual beliefs of our life,
we open ourselves up to true transformation, not just temporarily but permanently.
The thought of trying anything spiritually and sexually unfamiliar is often felt impossible….
Unfortunately a balanced spiritual life with a balanced sexual understanding is poles apart.
Human beings are experts at building evidence to uphold their spiritual and sexual fear based beliefs.
We will even go out of our way to find evidence to support that belief, all the while filtering out
evidence of spiritual and sexual fulfillment.
It is the basis of your ability to justify your spiritual excuses and sexual complaints, push away self-responsibility, and blame others for any problems in your life.
The Truth Is…
You’re afraid of breaking out of your self-imposed limitations because you are unsure of what lies ahead.
You might fail....
You might get chastised....
Spiritual and sexual fears create deceptive results....
Parents and our heritage have a huge influence on the way we process spiritual and sexual fear.
The way our parents have understood and explained spiritual and sexual fear provoking situations
often exacerbates the fear.
As Sensuous Soul’s we are designed to instill a willingness to give up the perceptions that keep our spiritual and sexual fear in place; And to rebuild our spiritual and sexual “filtering systems” so that it empowers rather than diminishes….
Fear of being spiritually and sexually criticized is understandable, caring about what others think is normal. The desire to belong is basic to human nature, but in order to feel like you truly belong,
you must accept yourself for who you are…
A Sensuous Soul
Like so many of us when we attempt to connect with spiritual and sexually like-minded people
we allow spiritual and sexual fears to keep us from revealing our essential spiritual and sexual nature.
Spiritual fears and sexual limitations prevents us from experiencing spiritual trust and genuine sexual intimacy.
Trust in Your Divine Self….
Take steps towards Your spiritual and sexual freedom….
Say Yes To You….
The simplest way to see how spiritual and sexual fear may be driving you, consciously or unconsciously, is to focus on that area which is most obviously not fulfilling.
When you master one area of your life you are gaining the skill to master any area….
Understanding the aspects of spiritual and sexual fear is vital to your ability to loosen its grip....
"Fear is the gatekeeper of your comfort zone”.
Rhonda Britten
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