It's funny to me that some people are so selfish that they cannot see past their own drama or lack there of to help a loved one in need ...

I'm in a situation that no matter what i am upset about, my loved one finds a way to steal , what i informally call, " my angry shine" ... I get upset and then they have a comparative story as to why i shouldn't feel bad for myself...i should feel bad because this is what they are going through...or they have been through that before as well so get over it... or even worse when I'm mad, they all of a sudden are upset as well....HUH??? SMH...

its crazy because i know this is what happens every time and i still end up saying whats wrong with you? ... ...smh .... what is that???.... am i the insane party in this situation???

One day i decided to approach the situation after the one millionth time and say hey---why is it that every time i am upset---you are as well??...is it that hard for you to either walk away and let me breathe??...or better yet is it that hard for you to just not compound the situation??.... response----i do that because i feel like you're pulling away from me at those times...and possibly going to leave me...............(ugh)

for the record, the situation usually has nothing to do with this person and i am not often one to publicize what I'm actually going through---i usually don't get a chance to do so...i often say, verbatum, "i am having a rough day or dealing with some things inside ..I'm just letting you know so you don't feel like my mood has anything to do with you".... (ahead of time i do this in an effort to avoid the excess drama----to no avail)

I think for me it's more so upsetting because i do in fact end up getting upset with the person after i end up dealing with their issues instead of my own...and at the end of the day, the person still never is able to be there for me for what I'm going through...

I must be crazy!! .... but I just want you all to know that MISERY DOES NOT ALWAYS LOVE COMPANY!!! =)