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I think, my wife don’t like me part 2

After a long weekday we both come home from work. My wife goes to get the baby from the babysitter. While she’s preparing dinner. I take the baby outside to play or upstairs in the playroom. After we enjoy dinner, I wash the
dishes while my wife take the baby for a bath. After the bath and dishes we enjoy a little family time in
the family room, until the baby falls asleep. Now I’m thinking after our shower
it’s our time. We get in bed with
our favorite comedy show on (Kings of Queens or House of pain). I will put my hand
on her leg just to hear “I’m hot, don’t’ touch me”. I don’t give up, at least not right away. I move my body
closer to hers, to let her know what I want. Then she will say, “I’m tired”.
This is with the shoulders going up and tension in her voice. I get it; I move over (with a great
feeling of rejection) and turn on the laptop. Wondering how tired you have to be not to have sex? As if the workload
is not shared and I could make the argument that I have a lot more physical
work, maybe she’s mentally exhausted. Mental, what is there to think about when
having sex?

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Comment by Vanessa M. Smith-Lewis on April 24, 2010 at 11:00pm: You should know better or maybe you dont. When there is something on our mind(females)-that bothers us- we are not in the mood. If its emotinal than that's even worse for the male. You bith have to pray. 2 books recommened to me-- "The five love languages" and "The power of a praying husband/wife"----read them -seriously. Try a different approach also-the same old thing just piss her off even more- Rub the feet, make your way up the leg. Rub the shoulders, down the back, then soft kisses. Relax her physically, then the mental should come. Will take a little more energy and effort from you.