Locksley Gayle - This cheating thing is fascinating to me. The greatest of men has cheated. The churchgoer, the pastor, the president etc. We all know better, we all know the consequence of our actions, but yet. Would a good man cheat? As ironic or contradictory as this may sound, the answer has to be yes. After 25 years of being a good citizen, role model, father, and husband. One moment of weakness and you are now a bad person. Should a moment of weakness be an end all in a realationship? Again, I’m talking about a good man. Yes I know, this line should not be crossed, the unforgettable should not be a thought, the unthinkable should not happen. Then why would a good man cheat? Remember, I’m talking about a good man. Here’s the answer, we all struggle, we all have problems and issues in a realationship. Sometimes we get in a dark place of I don’t care. This dark place can cause you to drink, do drugs, lose your job, and cheat on your wife. Just imagine being in this dark place and someone comes along and make you easily forget about your troubles. She comes on to you and offers a fix, at this point family and wife is not in your thoughts. After actions are committed, a wake of what have I done. Man, a good man just cheated.

Sophie Heng - "It won't be celebrated but doing the right thing, is the right thing to do."

Women has always been the nurturer, the caretaker, the giver, lover of life and protector of man. We are more willing to forgive a man than another women, so for a man to cry out that I am a GREAT man, a Good man, and I have walked down the path of the righteous but I just lost my mind for one quick second, is the same psychological bull shit that man wants women brain washed to believe. Of course you know we would eat out of your hands because most of us in love are that silly. We want to believe that we are the Queen in your eyes, the other woman that you cheated with was just some one night stand Skank. Men know that we out number you all and good men are hard to come by. So with that being said, your "GREAT" man and "Good" man cries will have ladies jumping out of their panties and forgiving the cheating man but a cheater is and always will be a cheater.

What is so honest and good about a man that cannot be faithful, upfront, and loyal? He maybe a Great and Good person/human being but as a significant other, boyfriend, and husband he was never ready for you. If he was such a good man, he would know that he was not ready for a commitment and if he was in a long term commitment with you and you drove him crazy, he could have came to you like a MAN and confess that he is not feeling the relationship. Then you would know he's a coward and not really that strong to handle the Woman that you are. "Give him up, turn it loose".