Cheater one is, the man living two lives, feels no guilt, and have no conscience. Cheater two is, the man who caves into temptation, feels guilty, and does not love the woman. When comparing the two, we are talking about one to many times. Both cheaters are wrong. I do not condone cheating, but I understand cheater twos action. I think cheater one should not be forgiven and cheater two should be given a second chance. It does not take much for a man to have sex, we do not have to be in love or even know their name. It is all attraction. Cheater two are most vulnerable to cheat when they are upset with their wife or have not had sexual relations for a while. Lets not talk about long distance, it just don't work. Men need sex, point blank.

We must also understand the bigger picture, committing this sin could result in lost of family, home, all that was built. Also child support and alimony. I like to use the 80 20 rule, Understanding your wife might do 80 percent of the thing you like and someone else might do the other 20 percent that your wife lacks and you want. We need to understand that 80 is more than 20 and you do not want to wake up with someone who does only 20 percent of what you like.

Michael Jordan, Jesse Jackson, Bill Clinton, Governor Sanford, and a few popular Preachers just to name a few. These or public figures, mentors and leaders. Also they all committed adultery. It is more common than we think.