Is my wife cheating? Part two


(A Friend perspective)

What the hell, my initial thought was this was not so bad, I think we can work through this. They had a frantic look on their faces. Something told me to look down, and I saw a pair of Men size Timberland boots….
I always prepare myself mentally for the worst. This allows me to remain calm in unforeseen situations. I am not looking or talking to anyone other than my wife. The naked guy was already out the door, I told the other woman to leave. Of coarse I had thoughts of killing my wife, but I thought about my kids. Nothing happened that day, I yelled, she pleaded she was sorry. I shook her and through her into the wall. At this point I felt I had to leave, I thought that was the smart thing to do. I went for a drive and I didn’t come back until the next day. At this point I was calm and ready to talk, well, listen. In my mind I went over and over, what could she possibly say? She started to say that we married young and she always had this feeling. Most of my time is spend at work and I was not satisfying her. Her best friend came on to her one day and she rejected her and told her off. But being best friends, they continued talking and getting deeper into the situation. She told her best friend that she always had a feeling but never acted on it. The friend told her that her and her husband are swingers. She offered her and her husband to come over and talk to her about it, she accepted. All I said was, that is still cheating. She began to tell me that their marriage has never been better, it is always exciting, and she wants that. Long story short, we are having so many problems, not only this incident but also other family and financial problems that divorce will just add to it. My 17-year son is about to have a baby with a 15 year old. The Girl parents kicked her out and she is staying with her grandmother, who barely can take care of herself. I’m thinking child support and alimony. I have two other young kids and I want to make it better for them not add to it and make it worst. I went back to my initial thought, maybe I will enjoy it, and in fact I know I will. Two women at once is most guys’ fantasy. I can sleep with other women and it will be okay. The only problem is my wife has more time on her hands than I do. This will keep her happy and the family will stay in place. I told my wife we can try it but if it does not work out then we need to try something else.

More is coming