Is my wife cheating? Part three (99 problems)


This will keep her happy and the family will stay in place. I told my wife we can try it but if it does not work out then we need to try something else.

Today I just became a grandfather at the great age of 38, this is not the age I had in mind but I am extremely happy and motivated as if it was my child. My wife and I sat our 17-year son down and told him that we will help out financially and emotionally, but physically he needs to be there for his child. We will allow you to have a second chance; you can finish high school and enroll into college. We want you to take care of yourself, therefore taking care of your family. One more chance, don’t mess it up, learn from your mistakes. Because you will not get another chance from us. When my kids screw up, I want them to know that it is okay and we will be there to help. Don’t make the situation worst than what it is. We want you come to us and we can help you fix it. I thought our family was the modern day Cosby Show. We focused on school and our kids had great a behavior. Now my first grand child is here and I have a great feeling of joy and happiness but a great since of responsibility as if I have another mouth to feed. These two knuckleheads, I will refer to my grandchild parents as “two knuckle heads”. These two knuckleheads are not mature enough or know enough about taking care of a baby. One half of the knuckleheads is only 15 years old, she should be playing with dolls. My son is saying the right things, but only time will tell if he does the right things. I’m starting to hear talks of maybe one half of the knuckleheads should move in. My immediate reaction to that is hell no; I don’t want my other two young kids to have that around them. It is already bad; I don’t want a circus in my home. I don’t want to go from the Cosby Show to the Ringling Brothers. If I allow that, what will my two youngest think, what do they think now? A lot of people are saying it might be the best thing to move the knucklehead into our home. Her grandmother is old, weak, and the situation might be too much for her. Plus, financially she can’t take the burden.